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How Is Divorcing a Narcissist Different?
Although there are many "professional" definitions of a narcissist, anyone who has been in a relationship with a narcissist knows more than he or she wants to know about this particular personality type. While being married to a narcissist can range from challenging to traumatic, divorcing a narcissist is often an outright nightmare.
The narcissistic spouse will often attempt to drag out a divorce for the longest amount of time possible. This spouse is unlikely to care about his or her own additional divorce-related expenses so long as the other spouse is being "punished" for the divorce. Narcissistic spouses are also likely to use every tactic available to turn friends, family members, and even the other spouse’s own divorce attorney against him or her.
The best defense against a narcissistic spouse during divorce is to be fully prepared for every potential situation. Perhaps one of the most important steps you can take is to hire a highly experienced Arlington Heights, IL divorce attorney who has a good understanding of how to deal with a narcissist.
Obtaining or Restricting a Child’s Passport During Divorce
Parents who are involved in a contentious allocation of parental responsibilities may worry that the other parent could take the child out of the country. This is particularly true when one parent has citizenship in another country, and the other fears an attempt at child abduction. If you are in this situation, it is crucial that you have a solid understanding of Illinois passport guidelines for children.
Since the U.S. passport system is federal and administered by the State Department, the allocation of parental responsibilities is determined under Illinois state statute. Thanks to the intersection of federal, state, and even international law, issues with child passports can get complicated.
Knowing that you have the law on your side can be a comfort. Speaking to a knowledgeable Arlington Heights, IL family law attorney from Law Offices of Donald J. Cosley can give you further information regarding a potential child abduction.
Why Is There an Increase in Divorce After the Holidays?
Although the holidays are a time for family togetherness and traditions, there is another side to this Norman Rockwell picture. The first part of January is one of the busiest times for divorce attorneys, with the U.S. divorce rate climbing by almost a third during this time period. In fact, January is often known as the "divorce month," and the first working day after Christmas and New Year’s is often known as "D-day" because of the record numbers of spouses filing for divorce.
The U.K. has statistics that are much the same; a poll of more than 2,000 married spouses in the U.K. reported that one out of five couples polled planned to file for divorce after the holidays. This begs the question of why spouses wait until the holidays are over to file for divorce. Spending what is meant to be a happy holiday with a person you are planning to divorce seems less than festive.
How Many Times Will I Have to Appear in Court for a Divorce?
Divorce can be anxiety-inducing and stressful, even under the best circumstances. The necessity of appearing in court can wreak havoc on your work schedule and ability to meet the needs of your children. Even if your divorce is relatively simple or uncontested, you will still have to appear in court for certain actions. However, there are certain issues that can be handled by your attorney and for which you do not have to be present.
Any time a temporary issue is being litigated and the court requires evidence to be presented, you should be present. Even in a divorce that is settled outside of court, you are still likely to be required to appear in court for the finalization of the divorce. This is because the mere signing of a divorce settlement does not make you "divorced."
Only a settlement signed by a judge results in an actual divorce. The potential situations that will require your attendance in court are more fully discussed below. Speaking to an experienced Rolling Meadows, IL divorce attorney is a very positive step you can take to achieve the best outcome. An attorney from Law Offices of Donald J. Cosley can more fully answer your questions and explain the divorce process.
What Impact Does Domestic Violence Have on Divorce?
A new report from the Illinois Coalition Against Domestic Violence states that deaths from domestic violence in the state rose by 110 percent in 2023. This included 94 incidents of domestic violence that led to 120 deaths. In 2022, there were 57 deaths from domestic violence in the state of Illinois.
The majority of these deaths were caused by firearms, triggering the push for the passage of a bill called Karina’s Bill. This Bill would allow police officers to remove firearms when serving an order of protection on an accused abuser. Domestic violence has grown more pervasive in Illinois and across the nation.
As the victim of domestic violence, every aspect of your life and the lives of your children can be impacted, perhaps even more so when you file for divorce. Perhaps your spouse has a long history of domestic violence, and you are afraid he will hurt you or your children when you tell him you want a divorce.
What Are the Rights and Responsibilities of Unmarried Parents Under Illinois Law?
Illinois allocation of parental responsibilities hinges on the best interests of the child standard. The judge will always make decisions based on the best interests of the child, regardless of what the parents want. Parents who want a specific outcome in a hearing regarding parental responsibilities, parenting time, child support, or any other issue must show the judge that what he or she wants is in the best interests of the child.
Unmarried parents, like married parents, have certain obligations owed to their children, regardless of their marital status. There are specific laws in Illinois that govern parental responsibilities laws for unmarried parents. If you have questions regarding the determination of parental responsibilities, child, support, parenting time, parenting plans, or any other issues, it can be helpful to speak to an experienced Rolling Meadows, IL parental responsibilities lawyer from the Law Offices of Donald J. Cosley.
How Could Separate Assets Become Marital Assets?
During a divorce, one spouse may be unpleasantly surprised to find that assets he or she believed to be separate have become marital assets, subject to the equitable division of assets rule in Illinois. Without a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement in place, it is easier than you might think for a separate asset to become a marital asset.
Nine community property states remain in the U.S., with the remainder being equitable division states, including Illinois. Under equitable division rules, the marital assets will be divided fairly, although not necessarily equally. If you are concerned that assets you believed to be separate may have changed to marital assets, it could be beneficial to speak to an Arlington Heights, IL asset division lawyer from the Law Offices of Donald J. Cosley.
How are Separate and Marital Assets and Property Defined?
If you or your spouse owned an asset or property prior to your marriage, barring certain circumstances, it remains yours solely in the event of divorce. The same goes for gifts or inheritances given to one spouse either before or during the marriage and compensation for a personal injury received by one spouse (except for lost wages and medical bills). In theory, separate property remains the exclusive property of the individual spouse during divorce if the designation has not been inadvertently changed during the marriage. Marital assets include all assets and property acquired by either spouse or both spouses during the marriage.
Can Credit Card Debt Affect Your Illinois Divorce?
Significant credit card debt can be a factor in the decision to divorce and can also cause problems during the divorce. A concerning trend of "financial infidelity" has been shown to influence the breakdown of marriages. A full 70 percent of respondents to a recent poll cited credit card debt as a reason for their divorce. Many of these respondents said they or their spouses had concealed debt and that this played a major role in the divorce. Perhaps equally alarming, almost 40 percent of those who ended their marriage due to marital debt saw their credit scores nosedive by more than 50 points following the divorce.
Since many divorcees found themselves solely responsible for debts that had previously been shared, financial challenges only escalated after the divorce. Illinois is an equitable division state in terms of the division of assets. This means marital assets and debts are divided fairly, although not necessarily equally. An experienced Rolling Meadows, IL asset and debt division lawyer from Law Offices of Donald J. Cosley can help ensure the division of your assets and debts is equitable.
What if My Spouse Lies to Get an Order of Protection? | IL
An Illinois protective order is issued by the Court, requiring the person that caused harm to another to stay away from the person he or she committed domestic violence against, stalked, sexually abused, or sexually assaulted. The person who obtains an order of protection must prove that "more likely than not," the offender committed domestic abuse against him or her.
Unfortunately, a protective order may be used during a divorce or allocation of parental responsibility case as a way to obtain leverage over the other party. One parent may claim the other is a domestic abuser as a means of being designated as the primary residential parent. Do you have any rights if you did not do what your spouse is accusing you of? Can you still see your children? Will you get the opportunity to tell your side of the story?
These and other important questions related to an order of protection can be answered by a Rolling Meadows, IL order of protection attorney from Law Offices of Donald J. Cosley. Family law matters are usually very sensitive, requiring dedicated, responsible legal representation. It is important that you have all your questions answered and receive a thorough explanation of how your particular family law issue will progress.
Could I Be Ordered to Pay Non-Minor Support in Illinois?
Many Illinois parents currently paying child support wonder whether they must pay for a child's college education or continue paying child support after the child turns 18. In Illinois, this is known as non-minor support and can be court-ordered under certain circumstances.
Generally, child support ends when the child turns 18 and leaves high school, gets married, joins the military, or becomes emancipated. Sometimes, a parent's child support obligation can continue under non-minor support. A court will determine whether non-minor support is appropriate after hearing the issue and the arguments against the support by the paying parent.
Having a Rolling Meadows, IL child support lawyer working on your behalf ensures the best possible outcome. When you have an advocate who understands Illinois child support laws and has extensive experience with virtually every family law situation imaginable, you can be secure in the knowledge that your interests will be protected.
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